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Call Her Daddy · February 12, 2025 · 72m

Esther Perel

Psychotherapist and relationship expert Esther Perel discusses modern relationships, the paradox of choice in dating apps, and why the quality of your romantic relationships is the single best predictor of life satisfaction.

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Perel presents research showing that the quality of intimate relationships is the strongest predictor of long-term happiness — stronger than income, career success, or social status.

Highlights

Dating apps create the illusion of infinite choice — which paradoxically makes choosing harder
Perel argues that dating apps don't solve the problem of finding a partner — they create a new problem: the paralysis of infinite options. When you can always swipe to someone new, committing to anyone feels like settling.